Category: self development

Big dreams with Big Fears, Result zero

The population of the world is more than 6 billion and among all these peoples, the majority consists of deprived and depressed peoples. There are only a few thousand peoples who have luxuries of life and of course, huge money, as well. The question is, if every human being is equal according to nature rules, like two hands, two eyes, one heart, one mind, etc, then why billions of people always spend pitiful life and why they are not able to reach those destinations which are the territory of some thousand’s successful peoples. We try to find out the answer to this basic question.

The difference in thinking is a big factor

Common man always thinks about small things. His focus is just getting daily luxuries like food for eating, small money, amount for children’s school fees, etc, he never thinks about car, bungalow, big salary job or business, because he already has taken decision about, he cannot do anything in life, he will be miserable always, etc, but the successful person’s mental approach is totally different. He thinks big in every aspect of life. This is about the approach of mind. In fact, the mind is the same, but poor man and the successful man think differently.

How to change our thinking habit

The poor and jobless man also becomes a successful man if he changes his mental approach. In fact, every poor and dejected person on this earth is full of negative thoughts; otherwise, he cannot make poor, the basic reason behind his failure is attached to his negative approach. He himself decided about anything like he thinks, he cannot do it, he is not able to do it, and he is not the ability to do it. I am poor, I am weak, etc. these all are negative thoughts who are the biggest hurdles of the life of the common man. So, always try to think positive whether you are poor or frustrated or jobless because every successful person is always optimistic about his decisions, so, why he gets everything which he wants?

One rule for fulfilling your dreams

Every human being sees dreams, but very few are here who fulfilled it. If you follow this rule, then, believe me, there will be dramatic changes happen in your life and you will see improvement in every aspect of your life and if you continue this habit, then you will achieve everything in your life like successful peoples.

The rule is very simple. In every day, when you awake, you never ever think negatively about any matter. Of course, this is not an easy job because negative thoughts always come to your mind, nobody can stop them, but you are able to stop memorizing them, repeating them, so you just do it. Always repeat positive thoughts, and always ignore negative thoughts, either you are doing a job, or you are jobless, or you have nothing in life, you are a student or whatever you are doing in life, just create positivity in your life about every matter. So, very soon you will see positive changes in your life and also started your boom career, as well.  It’s a guarantee.

Your imagination is your biggest enemy

As you read the title, your imagination is your enemy. Yes, you are right because as you know imagination is a basic of any human action so if you are not using your imagination in the right way, then you should be ready for the consequences. What is the right use of imagination? We discuss first.
Use of imagination
Every human being is habitual of imagination on the whole day, even during sleep. If you make a plan of doing something then it’s OK. You must try to imagine the execution of your plan and then take it. It’s a normal imagination. It is not harmful to you, but if you are doing over imagination then it must be created hurdles of your life. Because over imagination will make confuse to you. So many confusing options with negative vibes will surround you. In the result, your action will be disturbed.

How much imagination is enough for you?
There is no limit of the imagination but keep in mind, if you are working on some kind of task then imagine it and do it. You personally can decide what should be the limit of imagination. Always keep in mind; the time of imagination is before action, not during action. When you are busy in any kind of a task, and then shut off the doors of your imagination, because the picture is very clear what you are doing, you already know, so now just take on your job.

Losses of over imagination

If you are habitual of over imagination then you must be looser because it’s clear that you mostly spend your time in imagination, so you have no time for action.
I am giving you a simple example, guys, who think a lot about girls, they are always lonely, most of them frustrated, because they forget the basic role of imagination, if they see the dreams of any girl, then after the imagination of such girl, they need to approach such girl, but they are still living in the world of imagination. So result is just frustration. That’s all.

Conclusion

Always, keep in mind, imagination without action is useless. People forget this basic principle, so they always face dejection. Think once, if right brothers just imagined about the flying machine, and not took experiments, then it was not possible for them to invent flying machine, which converted to the airplane, later. They imagined first, and then made it in real with their continuously actions and experiments. So, no need to hate imagination. Though, use it in your favor with your action. That is the point.